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Talking to family about cutting back on gifts

Secret Santa, spending limits and "experiences only".

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Many people would love to spend less on gifts but don't want to be the one to say it. Often others feel the same. A friendly suggestion early in the year makes it easier.

Ideas to suggest

  • A gift exchange (Secret Santa) with a set limit
  • Gifts for the kids only
  • One shared family experience instead of individual gifts
  • A "homemade or second-hand only" year

How to bring it up

"We're trying to spend less this year, and I'd love more time together over more presents. Would anyone be up for a gift exchange instead?" Suggest it early, well before anyone has started shopping.

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